Serving Sass, Style & Seating Charts: My Wedding Biz Origin Story

Hi, there! I'm Adam Krajkowski. With 7 years of turning "I do" into absolutely unforgettable, I’m your go-to wedding planner for everything from rustic-chic to modern glam. I'm all about clear communication, sticking to your budget (yes, it can be done!), and working together like the dream team we are. I believe every event should be meaningful, joyful, and radiate good vibes only. It’s like having a planner in your pocket—without the full-service cost. But where did all this fabulous-ness start? Let's get into the origin story of The Gay Events Guy.

So there I was—young(ish), fabulous, and the director of a bustling preschool, knee-deep in finger paints, snack schedules, and tiny humans with big personalities. Don’t get me wrong, I adored those little ones and their wild energy, but something inside me kept whispering (okay, shouting), “There’s more for you, boo!” I’ve always been that guy—the one with the color-coded calendar, matching gift bags, and a borderline obsessive love for organizing literally anything. I planned my cousin’s graduation party when I was 18 like it was the Oscars, and I didn’t just love it—I thrived. People have always been my passion, and I knew I wanted to keep showing up for them, just in a fresh, fun, and fabulous new way. Leaving my job wasn’t easy, but chasing “my thing” meant turning my love for events, details, and all the people-y parts of life into something real. Spoiler alert: it got sparkly.

Once I decided to leap, honey, I leapt. No fancy connections, no “in” to the wedding world—just a phone, a dream, and a whole lotta hustle. I cold-called over 20 people in the local events scene (yes, called, like it was 2003), sent more emails than I care to admit, and collected a bouquet of polite “no’s,” ghostings, and a few brutal rejections. But I also got one magical “you-should-talk-to-so-and-so,” which turned into a goldmine of opportunity. A powerhouse wedding planner pointed me toward a local event networking group, and through that, I met a total gem of a human who introduced me to a position as Assistant Director of Special Events at a stunning local venue. Cue the glitter cannon.

I worked my way up to directing events (because, hello, work ethic and flair), but as I settled into the role, something started tugging at my heart. I noticed how many amazing couples—kind, creative, down-to-earth people—were struggling to plan their weddings without blowing their budget sky-high. There just weren’t enough resources or support for them, and honestly? That lit a fire in me. I realized I didn’t just want to run events—I wanted to connect with people, help them feel seen, celebrated, and totally taken care of. I wanted to build something where I could bring the joy, the organization, and yes, the adorable energy, to couples who deserved their dream day without the nightmare price tag.

And that, my friends, is how The Gay Events Guy was born—equal parts heart, hustle, and a little bit of rhinestone energy. I didn’t want to just plan weddings; I wanted to guide couples through the entire journey—hand-in-hand, fully supported, and feeling like the stars of their own rom-com. My business grew out of a dream to be the steady voice, the budget whisperer, the hype person, and sometimes, the honest-but-loving voice that says, “Babe, do you really need to invite your mom’s coworker’s cousin’s dog walker?”

What I realized was this: people needed a planner who didn’t just show up on the big day. They needed someone who got them, who they could build a real bond with—someone who saw the love story behind the spreadsheets. That’s why I created The Gay Events Guy’s Guide—a smart, sassy, module-based planning system that’s budget-friendly, collaborative, and custom-built for real couples with real lives (and yes, real stress). I’m not there in person on the wedding day, which keeps costs lower, but I don’t just peace out—I train your day-of person, keep a watchful eye on every step we take together, and make sure you're never walking blind through the chaos of timelines, vendor drama, or Aunt Cheryl’s unsolicited opinions.

I match my couples with the best local vendors that vibe with their vision and budget, and I champion them through every “we can’t afford that” moment or “but my cousin insists on singing at the ceremony” dilemma. Because I’m not just here to plan your day—I’m here to protect your joy, celebrate your love, and make sure your wedding planning journey feels just as magical as the vows you’re about to say. 💁‍♂️✨

So if you're ready to ditch the stress, dodge the drama, and plan a wedding that feels so you—without selling a kidney to afford it—I'm your guy. Whether you’re newly engaged or knee-deep in Pinterest boards, I’d love to hear your story, spill some tea, and start dreaming up your big day together. Slide into my inbox, book a free consult, or just say hey—I promise I’m just as fun over Zoom as I am on this blog. 💌✨

Let’s plan something unforgettable, babe.— The Gay Events Guy 💍🌈